Thursday 23 July 2009

Apt Words

The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider motorways but narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less; we buy more, but enjoy less.

We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time. We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness.

We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom.

We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.We've learned how to make a living, but not a life. We've added years to life not life to years.

We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbour. We conquered outer space but not inner space. We've done larger things, but not better things. We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul.

We've conquered the atom, but not our prejudice.We write more, but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish less.We've learned to rush, but not to wait. We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.

These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships. These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes.These are days of quick trips, disposable nappies, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill.

It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom. A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete.

Remember, spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever. Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side. Remember to give a warm hug to the one next to you because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn't cost a penny.

Remember,to say, "I love you" to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it. A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you. Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for some day that person will not be there again.

Give time to love, give time to speak and give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.

8 comments:

AmyK said...

Beautifully written. And more true than some people will understand. When my 1st daughter was born, my sister-in-law said "Hold her. Hold her all you can". That time goes so quickly. That daughter is 35 now and I said the same words to her when her sons were born. On all fronts our lives are racing by. I have less time in front of me than behind me now. We can all slow down. Thank you for the reminder.

June said...

All of that is so true. Most of my family are all gone now and sometimes I really long for the days when I was being hugged all the time and had too many relatives instead of visiting too many cemetaries now. I guess that is why I believe we shouldn't take things for granted and try to live life to the fullest!! I also believe if we are unhappy with things in our life, we HAVE to change it and make it better in some way. Life is so short...

Gucci Mama said...

I love this.

Adullamite said...

I certainly need to slow down.

Unknown said...

First Adullamite gets all elegant, and now you with all of this profound wisdom. WHAT'S GOING ON OVER THERE???

Strawberry Girl said...

So true Mike, things that I think about quite a bit. Thank you for sharing this.

SG

miruspeg said...

I will have to print this out Mike and read it over and over.
Excellent post mate.
Hugs
Peggy

Lilly said...

Awww, that was beautifully written. You are very clever you know. It should be published, thought about sending it to the newspapers or somewhere. I am with Peggy I am printing it out.

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